Reading the Body Language of Eyes
The eyes are the single biggest clue that someone is attracted to you, because when we feel attracted to something we look at our pupils dilate, growing to up to four times their usual size. Conversely, contracted pupils indicate that somebody is looking at something they don’t like.
What’s great about this (especially for women) is that even the most oblivious man will naturally decode dilated pupils as a sign of attraction. You don’t have to be clued-up to get the signal; it will happen naturally.
You may be wondering whether it’s possible to voluntarily dilate your pupils. And yes, you can. The easiest and most natural / most genuine way of dilating the pupils of your eyes to show attraction is to simply imagine something you like a lot. Simply focus momentarily on a mental picture of something that stimulates you and your eyes will naturally dilate. Using the body language of eyes in this way will give you a great boost in the dating scene.
Body Language of Eyes: Raising Eyebrows and Lowering them
One very easy way to show either submission or aggression via the body language of eyes is to raise or lower your eyebrows. Raising eyebrows in body language denotes a submissive person (which means people will feel more comfortable approaching you) and also draws attention to the face so people are more likely to notice you. Lowering the eyebrows shows aggression, making people either more likely to leave you alone or to feel a confrontation. So, for making friends, your best bet is to very quickly and subtly raise your eyebrows so that people a) are drawn to you and b) will perceive you as friendly and non-threatening, making them want to talk to you.
Body Language of Eyes: Looking Up
You may have noticed how female masters of body language look up whilst lowering their head and possibly parting their lips a little. This is a signature move used by masters of the body language of eyes like Princess Dianna and Marilyn Monroe, and for good reason: it sends men mad. No surprise, given that it’s the expression women show before having an orgasm. If you’re a gal looking for a quick way to wrap men around your finger, you can’t go far wrong with this very simple gesture!
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