Interpersonal Communications Course

In our body language course, you will find everything you need to know to both read body language and to use good body language yourself. Here, you’ll find pages on every aspect of body language (including eye contact body language, the body language of legs, arms, hair, feet and more). You’ll also discover how body language can be used to show confidence, to improve communication in business , for flirting, dating and love and a whole lot more besides.
To begin with, let’s take a look at the best reasons for beginning to learn to read body language.
Why Learn to Read Body Language? The Top 10 Reasons

Reading body language will let you know when someone is lying to you. By learning to read the body language of lying, you can avoid ever being lied to again. 
In negotiating, body language can be used to make people agree with you. 
Body language is important to reading shy people. Shy people may not say much; by being able to read their body language you can learn what is being unsaid
Body language can help to let you know when a person has ill intentions. It can greatly help in avoiding confrontations. 
Body language can make you appear a confident and sociable person, the kind of person people want to know.
By reading the body language of others you can determine precisely how they are thinking and feeling
Good body language in business is very important to creating the right image for clients, customers and colleagues
Flirting body language can be used to a) make you extremely attractive and b) let you know when someone is interested in you
Using body language will make you a more confident and happy person. Body Language directly effects feelings and mood.
Good body language is absolutely essential to good communication skills.


Date Shy Guys and Girls: The Body Language of Shy Guys and Girls

May 20, 2014 // 0 Comments

This quick guide to shy guy body language and shy girl body language will tel you everything you need to know about dating shy men and shy women.

Shy guys and shy girls can be the hardest people to understand. They don’t talk to anyone. They never open up about their feelings. And if you ask them a personal question they’ll run a mile. Trust me, I know, I was insufferably shy for 15 years of my life (“Hi, Paul,” people would say as I quickly ran away from them, lest I might be forced to actually say something. Sigh.)

Shy people don’t speak. So the only thing you’ve got to go on is their body language. But even their body language is confusing. The problem is that shy guy body language so closely resembles disinterested body language. Shy guys and girls can seem disinterested even when they’re totally smitten with you. For instance, consider this example: a shy guy looks at a girl he’s attracted to then suddenly looks away.

Many women would take this to mean he doesn’t like her, which is what this body language would mean for most guys, with shy people it actually means the opposite: the guy is interested but afraid to show it. So, what are we left with with shy people? No words. Next to no communication. Confusing body language. But don’t worry. Having been a shy person for long, I know how they work, and I’m about to share everything I know with you!

People’s Body Language

shy-guy-body-languageOkay, so the body language of shy people can be confusing. But let’s not allow that to get our spirits down. Let’s go ahead and look at precisely what we can determine from the o’ so confusing body language of shy people.
Gaze: The gaze used in shy guy body language is the opposite of usual body language. A shy guy who is attracted to a girl will look at her often but will also look away anytime he’s spotted. To read shy guy body language by gazes, pay less attention to the actual gaze length (the length of time he / she looks at you in one go) and more attention to the number of times you spot him / her looking at you. In other words, if he’s looking at you often but always looks away anytime you look at him, he almost certainly likes you a lot.

Dilated Eyes: This is one body language tell that will stay the same for a shy guy as for other people. A shy guy or shy girl’s eyes will still dilate when they look at someone they like. If his pupils get larger when he looks at you, he’s attracted to you.

Smile: A shy guy will smile at someone they like but with a tight smile (their lips are held tightly together). This is caused by the fact that the shy person is happy to see the person they like, but afraid to open their mouth and speak. This can make them look as though they’re being secretive, where in fact their shyness is forcing them to keep their feelings secret. He can’t open his mouth because he is afraid to start talking, so he holds hits lips closed tight.

People’s Body Language

Turned Head Rather than Body: Confident people turn their whole body to face someone they’re attracted to when looking from a distance, but the shy guy / shy-mangirl will only turn their head while their body remains pointing elsewhere. Usually, their body will point to an exit.

Think about it like this. His head is saying, “Holy cow, she’s hot,” while his body is saying, “I’m scared let’s get the hell out of here.”

Hugs Body Language: Types of Hugs and Their Meanings

May 9, 2014 // 0 Comments


spooning-cats-hugs-body-languagemore-buttonBecause spooning has us wrapping our arms around a person from behind, it is a very reassuring hug that means “I am here for you, I care about you, I will protect you.” A person who asks to be spooned is probably feeling insecure.

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more-buttonA hug we give when we are in love and when we feel close to someone. This hug makes the receiver almost fall backwards into the other person’s arms, creating a sense of oneness as the receiver rests their weight on the initiator of the hug. This hug shows that the hugger wants to protect the receiver as they are literally covering their back. back next-buttonAround the waste snug-a-lovin

huge-body-language-meaningsvideo-buttonThe body language of this hug says that a person desires you. The intention here is plain and simple: get as physically close as possible. The person initiating this hug wants to be very intimate with the person they are hugging. This hug is made even more intimate if the heads are brought together, in which case the person wants to be closer together in mind as well as in body.
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patting-the-back-hugBecause spooning has us wrapping our arms around a person from behind, it is a very reassuring hug that means “I am here for you, I care about you, I will protect you.” A person who asks to be spooned is probably feeling insecure.

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These are some of the most common hugs. There’s a ton more to discover about hugging, though. If you love to snug and want to learn the body language of snugging, read my complete guide to body language. You’ll discover everything you ever wanted to know about hugging, and more.

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Body Language of Women when Attracted

January 28, 2014 // 0 Comments

By understanding the body language of women when attracted you’ll be able to tell how a girl feels about you in moments. This is extremely important in singles dating (real life dating, as opposed to on online dating sites). Thankfully, it’s fairly easy. You definitely don’t need a masters degree in interpersonal communication in order to understand women, our guide has it all sorted. Begin below.


Body Language of Women When Attracted

The following signs will show in the body language of women when attracted:

She leaves her purse next to you and open
She looks at you for a long time or she quickly and nervously looks away when you eye her
She fondles cylindrical objects like a glass
She sucks on a pen, cigarette or other item between her lips
Her belly button points towards you
She slips her shoes on and off her feet when looking at you
She plays with or checks her hair
She runs a hand down her thigh while looking at you

body-language-women-attractd-3More signs in the Body Language of Women When Attracted

She wets her lips while looking at you
She shows you her naked wrists
She tosses her head to the side and looks up at you like a little girl
Her pupils dilate when looking at you
She laughs with you a lot
She rolls her hips when she walks
While sitting, she a) crosses her legs to the other side so that you can see the inside of her legs or b) she points her feet towards you

body-language-women-attracted-2More signs in the Body Language of Women When Attracted

While talking to other guys her feet or belly button point towards you
She raises her eyebrows when she first sees you
She fidgets nervously either with herself (most likely with her hair or face) or with an object (cell phone, for instance) while you are near her (this is a sign of a shy girl who is nervous about you, which likely means she is attracted to you but afraid to show it)
She in some way corrects or checks an important part of her image when you approach (could be her hair, clothing or another part of her image but she checks she is looking good when you approach her)
When walking past you her torso turns towards you
She nibbles her lips
Her blink rate increases when looking at or talking to you
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body-language-women-aj-leeMore signs in the Body Language of Women When Attracted

She mirrors your posture or gestures
She leans towards you
She smiles at you
She touches you (anywhere; doesn’t have to be sexual)
She makes an effort to hide the fact that she was looking at you (she might snap her head away, quickly look the other way, busy herself with a phone or other item or in any way distract herself. All are signs that she is a)a little shy and b) attracted to you, provided she was looking at you to begin with)
She lifts her arms so her armpits are shown (this is a strong sign of sexual interest)
When she talks to you she often gestures in a way which shows you the palm of her hands
When you talk to her and then move away, she continues looking at you for slightly longer than the average person (for instance, you meet a girl, shake her hand then move on, but for a second or so she remains looking at you)
Her cheeks raise when she looks at you

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