Category: Interpersonal Communications Course

In our body language course, you will find everything you need to know to both read body language and to use good body language yourself. Here, you’ll find pages on every aspect of body language (including eye contact body language, the body language of legs, arms, hair, feet and more). You’ll also discover how body language can be used to show confidence, to improve communication in business , for flirting, dating and love and a whole lot more besides.
To begin with, let’s take a look at the best reasons for beginning to learn to read body language.
Why Learn to Read Body Language? The Top 10 Reasons

Reading body language will let you know when someone is lying to you. By learning to read the body language of lying, you can avoid ever being lied to again. 
In negotiating, body language can be used to make people agree with you. 
Body language is important to reading shy people. Shy people may not say much; by being able to read their body language you can learn what is being unsaid
Body language can help to let you know when a person has ill intentions. It can greatly help in avoiding confrontations. 
Body language can make you appear a confident and sociable person, the kind of person people want to know.
By reading the body language of others you can determine precisely how they are thinking and feeling
Good body language in business is very important to creating the right image for clients, customers and colleagues
Flirting body language can be used to a) make you extremely attractive and b) let you know when someone is interested in you
Using body language will make you a more confident and happy person. Body Language directly effects feelings and mood.
Good body language is absolutely essential to good communication skills.


10 Things That Will Make Your Life Suck If You Let Them


Keep asking yourself “Why does my life suck?” There are ten likely culprits of why your life sucks. Read through the following ten reasons why life sucks and ask yourself which are true for you. Once you have determined why you life is so sucky you’ll be able to make the neccessary adjustments to make… Read more »

Body Language While Kissing


A kiss is just a kiss, but it can convey an awful lot about you. Here’s what you need to know about kissing body language.

How To Use Body Language To Start Dating Shy Guys And Girls

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This quick guide to shy guy body language and shy girl body language will tel you everything you need to know about dating shy men and shy women.

Shy guys and shy girls can be the hardest people to understand. They don’t talk to anyone. They never open up about their feelings. And if you ask them a personal question they’ll run a mile. Trust me, I know, I was insufferably shy for 15 years of my life (“Hi, Paul,” people would say as I quickly ran away from them, lest I might be forced to actually say something. Sigh.)

Shy people don’t speak. So the only thing you’ve got to go on is their body language. But even their body language is confusing. The problem is that shy guy body language so closely resembles disinterested body language. Shy guys and girls can seem disinterested even when they’re totally smitten with you. For instance, consider this example: a shy guy looks at a girl he’s attracted to then suddenly looks away.

Many women would take this to mean he doesn’t like her, which is what this body language would mean for most guys, with shy people it actually means the opposite: the guy is interested but afraid to show it. So, what are we left with with shy people? No words. Next to no communication. Confusing body language. But don’t worry. Having been a shy person for long, I know how they work, and I’m about to share everything I know with you!

People’s Body Language

shy-guy-body-languageOkay, so the body language of shy people can be confusing. But let’s not allow that to get our spirits down. Let’s go ahead and look at precisely what we can determine from the o’ so confusing body language of shy people.
Gaze: The gaze used in shy guy body language is the opposite of usual body language. A shy guy who is attracted to a girl will look at her often but will also look away anytime he’s spotted. To read shy guy body language by gazes, pay less attention to the actual gaze length (the length of time he / she looks at you in one go) and more attention to the number of times you spot him / her looking at you. In other words, if he’s looking at you often but always looks away anytime you look at him, he almost certainly likes you a lot.

Dilated Eyes: This is one body language tell that will stay the same for a shy guy as for other people. A shy guy or shy girl’s eyes will still dilate when they look at someone they like. If his pupils get larger when he looks at you, he’s attracted to you.

Smile: A shy guy will smile at someone they like but with a tight smile (their lips are held tightly together). This is caused by the fact that the shy person is happy to see the person they like, but afraid to open their mouth and speak. This can make them look as though they’re being secretive, where in fact their shyness is forcing them to keep their feelings secret. He can’t open his mouth because he is afraid to start talking, so he holds hits lips closed tight.

People’s Body Language

Turned Head Rather than Body: Confident people turn their whole body to face someone they’re attracted to when looking from a distance, but the shy guy / shy-mangirl will only turn their head while their body remains pointing elsewhere. Usually, their body will point to an exit.

Think about it like this. His head is saying, “Holy cow, she’s hot,” while his body is saying, “I’m scared let’s get the hell out of here.”

Playing with Wedding Ring Body Language: Getting A Divorce?

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Seeing a husband playing with a wedding ring can be a nerve-wracking thing.There are many body language books out there that will tell you that this is one sign that you’re heading for a divorce. They’ll tell you that when a man plays with his wedding ring he is wanting to escape his vows and… Read more »

Which Of These 4 Types Of Drunks Are You?

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What are you like when you’re drunk? Are you the super-happy-snuggle-everyone kind like me? Or the, OMG-I-can’t-stop-saying-the-damndest-things type? Or maybe you’re the Get-me-out-of-here-because-the-floor-is-spinning-and-I’m-going-to-pass-out type. Science has now created a way to predict precisely what type of drunk you are. Researchers from the University of Missouri psychology department recently published a study in Addiction Research &… Read more »

18 Youtube Comments So Funny Your Face Will Hurt

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Sometimes Youtube comments are so funny that your fact hurts. You sit there watching a video. You get bored for a couple of seconds so you scroll down. And there they are. Comments so ridiculous, outrageous, and just plain hilarious, that you burst into laughter and you don’t stop until you practically pass out. Here… Read more »

Casual Things Guys Should Say To Get To Know A Girl

casual things to say to a girl

  So you want to know what good questions to ask a girl to get to know her? And I’m guessing you have probably searched online for a lot of different advice about getting women, right?  And all that advice is now sitting in your head, doing little more than confusing you, right? Probably confuses you so… Read more »

An Eye Opening Revelation About FAIL Videos And Fear of Failure

fail girl

Forget about the videos for one minute and consider the word “Fail.” Failure is something millions and millions of people around the world have a serious fear of.  We hate the idea of failing. Be it in dating (we are afraid of rejection) at school (we’re afraid of failing exams) in personal life (we’re afraid… Read more »

These Facts About Online Harrassment Will Make You Sick

online cyber harrassment

Recent research conducted by Pew Research has revealed shocking new facts about online harassment. According to the research 73% of adult internet users have experienced harassment online at some point in their life, with 40% being the actual victim of it.   Research identified six different types of online harassment:- 60% of internet users have… Read more »

Actually, The Bad Guy’s the Wimp, And Nice Guys Finish First

nice guys finish first

As a man I hate to admit it, but the truth is that men are losing their manliness. I’m not talking about muscles or the way we look. I’m not talking about the ability to grow facial hair. And I’m definitely not talking about being “Macho”—a really comical notion that should have belonged exclusively to… Read more »

Funny How Communications Technology Destroyed Communication…

Full length of young men and women holding cellphone

A good portion of my teenage life was spent on the same daily routine. Wake up. Go to school. Get home. Play video games. Check the internet. Go to bed. Rinse. Repeat. My interpersonal communication was conducted through a combination of the grunts I gave in response to my parents’ questions, and online chat. That… Read more »

How To Be More Confident & Become Rich Fast


Part 3  (Part 1; Part 2) Now that we understand our objective, making it happen should be significantly easier. Essentially, we are going to repeat the same test from Part 4, only once we see our conflict, we are going to take a step back from it so as to free ourselves from it. By… Read more »

This Is Why Ashley Graham Is The #1 Role Model For Full Figure Women


Ashley Graham is leading the curvy revolution. At the age of 12 Ashley Graham started modelling in Lincoln, Nebraska, where she was born. Since then she’s taken the world by storm. This year she graced the pages of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue, showing the world her stunningly beautiful size 16 figure. Ashley Graham is redefining… Read more »

Stunning Mind Bending Artwork Will Have You In Awe


  “I wanted to create a world between outside and inside and somehow let them meet. I had this idea for quite some time now but it was not until this year that I decided to actually make it come to life. I always try to capture as much as possible in camera, it’s much… Read more »

How To Be A Master Communicator


How to Be a Master Communicator Step 1: Listen Listening is by far the easiest part of communication. Yet so many people fail to do it. The other day I asked a Chinese guy at a store where the nearest bus stop was. He pointed to the fridge. Huh…? If you’re not listening, you will never have good… Read more »

Body Language of Women when Attracted


understanding the body language of women when attracted you’ll be able to tell how a girl feels about you in moments. This is extremely important in singles dating (real life dating, as opposed to on online dating sites). Thankfully, it’s fairly easy. You definitely don’t need a masters degree in interpersonal communication in order to understand… Read more »