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The Body Language of Criminals – How To Stop A Criminal Before It’s Too Late

Worried about having your house broken into while you’re away—or, perhaps worse, while you’re in? Scared of the thought of being approached by a potentially criminally dangerous individual as you walk home at night? Don’t sweat it. With this guide you’ll be able to tell a criminal from a non-criminal far before it’s too late.

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How Stereotyping Protects Us From Crime

Did you know that we humans naturally have the ability to determine who is and who is not a criminal simply by looking at them? Criminals appear different to us than non criminals, mostly thanks to stereotyping.

Many claim that stereotyping is discrimination and that it’s offensive and ignorant.  The fact of the matter, however, is that stereotypes are almost universally empirically true, as is confirmed by research in evolutionary psychology. If stereotypes we’re not true,  they wouldn’t exist.

Actually, that last point isn’t entirely accurate. There are two known incorrect stereotypes. The first is the idea that you can’t judge a book by its cover. The second is that beauty is not skin deep (beauty is actually far more complex than being skin deep). Outside of these two notable exceptions, however, the vast majority of stereotypes are spot on. One such stereotype is criminal stereotyping.

It was recently proved in a study published by the Journal of Social, Evolutionary and Cultural Psychology that people can determine criminals from non-criminals just by looking at a photo.

In the study, a group of people were shown photos of the faces of 32 men, all of whom were Caucasian and in their 20s. Half of the faces belonged to criminals, the other half to non-criminals. The participants were then asked, on a 7-point scale, how likely it would be for each man to be a criminal. The results clearly showed that the participants could accurately determine criminals from non-criminals.  The results also made clear that participants had no ability to determine what type of criminals they were looking at. Then again, perhaps this is not without reason. Criminology states that criminals of one type will become criminals of another. Perhaps the participants recognised that the faces in the photos were simply not specific to one type of crime.

There is one exception to our ability to spot criminals: women cannot spot rapists. Time and again women participants indicated that real life rapists were less likely to be criminals. This may be due to the fact that most rapists are only able to rape once they have successfully fooled a woman into trusting them.

What we know for certain is that humans have a very high accuracy of criminal stereotyping. And what that means, it that the next time you see a face you don’t trust, you’d do well to listen to your gut instinct.

So, we know now that we are able to determine a criminal by looking at their face. But what about when we can’t make out a person’s face? What about when we can only make out the general outline of their body and the way they are moving?

Using Body Language To Spot Criminals

In these instances we must make use of an understanding of body language. Body language has been used by crime units to determine the likelihood of an individual being a criminal. There are many different criteria by which this judgment is made.

Learn to look out for the following body language signs. Criminals and other unscrupulous individuals are likely to reveal themselves through the following body language:

The Body Language Signs of Criminals

  • Clenched fists – indicates anger
  • Hands hidden – indicated the individual has something to hide
  • Chin pushed forward – shows anger and readiness to fight
  • Arms crossed – minor indication of insecurity and fear of being caught
  • Head held low or hidden – criminal is attempting to hide himself
  • Nibbling on lips – a sign of worry and fear, perhaps of being caught
  • High voice when speaking – shows fear
  • Quick, darting gazes – shows a desire to look at something (e.g to scan the scene) without being seen doing so.
  • Freezes when you look their way – shows fright  / nervousness
  • When you are near they tuck their chin into their chest – this is a self protection gesture that suggests the criminal may be preparing to fight
  • Showing upper teeth – strong sign of anger, steer clear of this individual

Note: no one body language gesture can be used to make a read on a person. It’s only when an individual shows many of these body language signs that there is cause for alarm

These body language signs are related to emotions. Criminals are most likely to be experiencing either anger (which is leading them to commit the crime) or fear (of being caught), so these two emotions become warning signs for others. The body language signs above will allow you to tell when a person is experiencing these two emotions, in which case you would do well to steer well clear of them as they may be about to commit a crime.

Use these facts of body language and stereotyping to help protect yourself

By using a combination of stereotyping and body language reading we become able to determine when a person is a) a criminal and b) likely to commit a crime or act in a dangerous way. With these tools we can significantly help to protect ourselves from criminal activity.

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Famous Lawyer Quotes About Lawyers with Anton Chekhov, Benjamin Franklin and Others

Here are the very best quotes about lawyers. Includes Cary Grant quotes, Anton Chekhov Quotes, Mario Puzo Quotes, Benjamin Franklin  quotes and more.

The Best Quotes About Lawyers and Law

A lawsuit is a fruit tree planted in a lawyer’s garden.

Italian Proverb, famous lawyers quotes

 

“A jury consists of twelve persons chosen to decide who has the better lawyer.”

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Divorce is a game played by lawyers.

Cary Grant quotes about lawyers

 

A lawyer with a briefcase can steal more than a hundred men with guns.

Mario Puzo famous layers quotes

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I have come to the conclusion that one useless man is called a disgrace, two useless men are called a law firm, and three or more become a Congress.

John Adams quotes about lawyers

 

“A lawyer will do anything to win a case, sometimes he will even tell the truth.”

-Patrick Murray quotes about lawyers

 

The first thing we do, let’s kill all the lawyers.

William Shakespeare quotes about lawyers

 

Lawyers are men who hire out their words and anger.

Horace

 

 

If you laid all of our laws end to end, there would be no end.

Mark Twain famous lawyer quotes

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The only difference between doctors and lawyers is that lawyers merely rob you, whereas doctors rob you and kill you, too.

Anton Chekhov

 

 

It is unfair to believe everything we hear about lawyers, some of it might not be true.

Gerald F. Lieberman

Everyone I used to work with is still alive and can afford expensive lawyers.

Alexei Sayle

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A countryman between two lawyers is like a fish between two cats.

Benjamin Franklin

 

“As a rule lawyers tend to want to do whatever they can to win.”

-Bill Williams

 

 

Of course people are getting smarter nowadays; they are letting lawyers instead of their conscience be their guides.

Will Rogers

 

 

A lawyer is someone willing to spend every cent you own to prove he’s right.

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Social Psychology Movies: The Hunger Games

Psychology Today recently published a fantastic look at the social psychology of The Hunger Games, in which Mark van Vugt, a professor of social and organizational psychology at the VU University Amsterdam and a research associate at Oxford University, looks at the various social psychology lessons taught in The Hunger Games. There’s an excerpt from this great article below as well as a link to the full article on Psychology Today.

 

The Social Psychology Behind The Hunger Games

A great way to teach our students important theories and concepts in psychology is through the use of fiction. Drawing from plots and themes of well-known novels or movies can help them gain insight into important psychological phenomena such as memory (Memento), autism (Rain Man), leadership (Braveheart) or prejudice (The Color Purple).

I remember, as a psychology undergraduate student, being taught a class on Group Dynamics with the aid of William Golding’s famous novel Lord of the Flies. The story is about a group of British school boys stuck on a desert island who try to govern themselves with disastrous results. Week by week we would discuss important social psychological concepts such as power, status, leadership, conformity, and intergroup conflict and connect them to important events happening in the book as the story unfolded.
The Hunger Games is the modern equivalent of Lord of the Flies.

For those readers unfamiliar with the story –rather unlikely in light of all the publicity–the Hunger Games (a novel written by Suzanne Collins) follows the main character, Katniss Everdeen, as she participates in a grueling contest, the Hunger Games. These games take place in a fictitious nation, Panem which consists of the wealthy Capitol and 12 poorer districts. As punishment for a rebellion against the Capitol in the past, from each district one boy and one girl are selected by annual lottery (Reaping) to participate in the Hunger Games.

 

Continue reading this article here: Social Psychology in The Hunger Games

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Dying to be Me / Kindle Book About Hope / Spirituality



Title: Dying to be Me

Format: Kindle Ebook

Positive Inspirations:

Inspires Faith: Dying to be Me is about how one woman’s life is changed by a near death experience and so if ripe with questions of faith and spirituality.

Enlightens the reader about cultural and social differences: In this memoir, Anita Moorjani reveals the difficulty of growing up as a Hindu in a Chinese and British society, with stories from her childhood, her struggle to find a career and to find love and about the cultural struggle of being in a minority.

Hope: Perhaps the biggest inspiration of this book is the hope it gives to other cancer suffers for being cured.

Dying to be Me Kindle Book Synopsis

 

In this truly inspirational memoir,Anita Moorjani relates how, after fighting cancer for almost four years, her body-overwhelmed by the malignant cells spreading throughout her system-began shutting down. As her organs failed, she entered into an extraordinary near-death experience where she realized her inherent worth . . . and the actual cause of her disease. Upon regaining consciousness, Anita found that her condition had improved so rapidly that she was able to be released from the hospital within weeks . . . without a trace of cancer in her body! Within these pages, Anita recounts stories of her childhood in Hong Kong, her challenge to establish her career and find true love, as well as how she eventually ended up in that hospital bed where she defied all medical knowledge. As part of a traditional Hindu family residing in a largely Chinese and British society, she had been pushed and pulled by cultural and religious customs since she had been a little girl. After years of struggling to forge her own path while trying to meet everyone else’s expectations, she had the realization, as a result of her epiphany on the other side, that she had the power to heal herself . . . and that there are miracles in the Universe that she had never even imagined. In Dying to Be Me, Anita freely shares all she has learned about illness, healing, fear, “being love,” and the true magnificence of each and every human being! This is a book that definitely makes the case that we are spiritual beings having a human experience . . . and that we are all One!

 

Dying to be Me Kindle Book Synopsis

About the Author

Anita Moorjani was born in Singapore of Indian parents, yet has lived inHong Kong most of her life. Because of her background and British education, she is multilingual and grew up speaking English, Cantonese, and an Indian dialect simultaneously; she later learned French at school. Anita had been working in the corporate world for many years before being diagnosed with cancer in April 2002. Her fascinating and moving NDE in early 2006 tremendously changed her perspective on life, and her work is now ingrained with the depths and insights she gained while in the other realm.

 

Dying to be Me Kindle Book Review Highlights

 

Dying to be Me is an amazing story of hope against the fear of dying, of illness and…ultimately…of living. It offers an enormously positive vision of what lies beyond this earthly life…and how we can live now with a more generous and open appreciation for all we experience here.

–Kali

Up and coming author Anita Moorjani’s debut book Dying To Be Me is undoubtedly one of the most important books of 2012. It is one of the most inspiring memoirs I have ever read.

–Mr.T

I had the pleasure of reading Anita’s book after hearing her speak in Sydney, Australia at the end of January. Her NDE experience is profound. The wisdom she shares is life changing.

–Cheryl Richardson

 

Quote From Anita Moorjani about her Near Death Experience

When I was in the NDE state, it felt like I had woken up to a different reality. It felt like I had awoken from the “illusion” of life, and from that perspective, it looked like my physical life was just a culmination of my thoughts and beliefs up to that point. It felt like the whole world was just a culmination of mass consciousness. That is, the culmination of everyone’s thoughts and beliefs. It felt like nothing was actually real, but we made it real with our beliefs. I understood that even my cancer was not real, it was also part of the illusion, so if I went back to my body, I would not have the cancer any more. And another thing is that, there was this incredible understanding of how we are all interconnected. And how what I felt within me affects my whole universe. It felt like the whole universe is within me. As far as I am concerned, if I am happy, the universe is happy. If I love myself, everyone else will love me. If I am at peace, the whole universe is peaceful. And so on. Also, there is no such thing as time and space in that dimension. It felt like everything was happening simultaneously. I saw what could be interpreted as past lives, I saw what was happening currently (my brother on the plane, and conversations between my family members and doctors), and I also saw the future of this life pan out. But it was as if they were all happening at once, and I was living them all at once. It felt like, only after coming back, my mind has to process it as happening in linear time, but in that dimension, it didn’t feel that way at all. And distance and solid walls did not stop me from seeing and hearingeverything that pertained to me at that time. So now, back into 3D life, it feels like even solid walls and distance only exist because we decide or believe them to exist.

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The Vanishers, Kindle Book Review

Looking for a book full of psychological insight, deep characters, emotional intelligence and social commentary? Then Heidi Julavits’ The Vanishers, out now on Kindle book format, is well worth a read. . .

Title: The Vanishers

Format: Kindle Ebook

By: Heidi Julavits

Positive Inspirations: Packed full of emotional intelligence and deep, realistic characters

Wonderfully creative in its writing (with stunning descriptions)

Full of psychological insight (especially social psychology)

The Vanishers Kindle Book Synopsis

 

Julia Severn, an initiate at the Instituteof Integrated Parapsychologyand stenographer to the great seer, Madame Ackermann (a recipient of “the occult equivalent of a MacArthur”), has a lot of raw talent. So much, in fact, that the relationship between mentor and protégé quickly sinks into hostile territory when Madame Ackermann taunts Julia with specters of her late mother. After a game of mental telepathy goes awry (forget Twister,” these party games the academic psychics play, they are high stakes), Julia finds herself abstractly ill, undiagnosable and unable to continue her studies with Madame Ackermann.
Julia heads toNew York, where she meets Alwyn, a young woman who has “vanished” herself, leaving her family without a clue as to her whereabouts; and Colophon Martin, a one-time employer and current adversary of Madame Ackermann. They theorize that all of Julia’s strange symptoms can be traced back to her former mentor: Julia is suffering from a psychic attack launched by the jealous Madame.Colophon urges Julia to check herself intoVienna’s Goergen Asylum, a cavernous Art Nouveau spa for patients wishing to recover in secret from plastic surgeries, and for the vanished victims of psychic attack.

The Vanishers, kindle Book Review Highlights

“The Vanishers is a lot of things: a paranormal detective story, an affecting exposition of familial and female dynamics, and a hilarious satire of academic politics. Here, Heidi Julavits has crafted a novel that is as ambitious as it is strange. . . “ Kevin Nguyen

“An absorbing meditation on female competition with Hitchcockian twists….Gripping”
–Entertainment Weekly

“Darkly comic….sharp-eyed, sardonic, hilarious….Julavits is at her acrobatically linguistic best here. Nearly every page contains a showstopping description or insight…narrative voice is superb. Funny, self-deprecating, exquisitely attuned….Vivid….Remarkable….Heartbreaking.”
–New York Times Book Review

“Open The Vanishers to any page and you’ll find some of the snappiest dialogue going. Stylish and fiercely funny, Heidi Julavits’s fourth novel explores the imagined dangers and dizzying thrills of being a career psychic….Julavits is a fearlessly inventive writer, a risk-taker who never shies away from prickly, tangled, often meaphorical emotional darkness and constantly strikes out into unexplored territory….the sharply original narrative, which moves at top speed, [is] always entertaining and full of curiosities, deadpan banter, and metaphysical playfulness…..a wild, fun ride that doesn’t let up until the last sentence.”
–Elle

“The protagonist could join the ranks of literature’s most unreliable narrators alongside Humbert Humbert…”
–Wall Street Journal

“Ms. Julavits is a keen observer of the high drama…An evocative writer, she conjures up the supernatural in a way that feels plausible….Lavish….Haunting”
–The Economist

About Author Heidi Julavits

Heidi Julavits was born inPortland,Maine, in 1968. She graduated fromDartmouthCollegeand has an MFA fromColumbiaUniversity. Her short stories have appeared in Harper’s, Esquire, the Best American Short Stories, Zoetrope, among other places. Her nonfiction has appeared in the New York Times, Elle, and the Best American Travel Essays. She is a founding co-editor of The Believer magazine, the recipient of a Guggenheim Fellowship, and was a finalist for the New York Public Library Young Lions Fiction Award. She lives inManhattanwith her husband, Ben Marcus, and their two children.

 

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Secrets in the Shadow Novel on Emotional Abuse / Relationships


 

Title: Secrets in the Shadow

Format: kindle

Positive Inspirations: Will open your eyes to the lives of others

                                   Covers the journey from past pain to future hope

 

T.L Haddix’s Secrets in the Shadow has been doing well on Kindle as of late, with 4 stars out of 5 from 16 reviews. It’s the first in the Shadows Collection of standalone Romantic Suspense novels set in Indianna.

 

Lauren’s life changed forever when a relative attempted to rape her thirteen years before the events of the novel. She suffered a failed marriage and now is close friends with her ex-husband with whom she shares custody of her children. Laruen is ready to start a new love story with a new man when the past catches up with her.

 

T.L Haddix crafts a realistic and engaging read with very realistic characters—particularly Lauren as she faces her past pains and searches for hope for the future. Secrets in the Shadow is a disturbing read at times, delving into incest, sexual abuse and emotional abuse, but it handles its subject respectfully and with honesty.

 

This is a brilliant read for inspiring compassion (mostly to the lead character Lauren) as well as for opening our often too-closed eyes to the suffering of others. It will leave you feeling more aware of life around you and more compassionate of other people.
Overall: 4 / 5

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Solipsist; a beautiful short film about connectedness and transcendence

Solipsist; a beautiful short film about connectedness and transcendence 

On the surface, Andrew Huang’s Solipsist is a gorgeously lush visual masterpiece, its colours exploding right out of the screen with palpable beauty. It is the sort of short film that you’ll begin to watch and then ten minutes later, at the film’s conclusion, question just how exactly the director managed to hijack your mind so absolutely. It is a meditation on colour, an artistic candy store of delight.

Looking deeper, one can see how the title takes form in the work.

Solipsism is the philosophical idea that only one’s mind is certain to exist, that we cannot know for sure that the material world, other people, even life itself exists outside of the realms of our own mind. The sequences of the film reflect this idea as the various characters try to transcend their physical form to connect to one another.

 

About the Film Maker

Andrew Huang is a commercial and music video director living in Los Angeles.

His career started when his dark sci-fi short film “Doll Face” went viral on YouTube, earning him attention from J.J. Abrams, William Morris Endeavor and numerous international festivals and galleries.

His work has been featured at Cannes Emerging Filmmaker Showcase, SIGGRAPH’s Electronic Theater, the Annecy International Film Festival, MOCA Taipei, ZKM Media Museum, as well as various publications including Motionographer, DAZED & CONFUSED, and Creativity Magazine’s “Directors to Watch.”

 

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Iguana Bay for Kindle

Title: Iguana Bay

 

For: Kindle

Positive Inspirations

Social Interest: Discusses issues or morality, criminality and the judicial system

Open Mindedness: Shows how our initial perception of someone can be very wrong.

Relationships: Centred around the deveoloping relationship of a bounty hunter and a witness to a murder trial 

 Iguana Bay Synopsis

Iguana Bay was all sand, sea and sky—the perfect getaway spot. But Elise Ramsey wasn’t on vacation. She was a prisoner. She was slated to be the star defense witness at a murder trial, an alibi for a man who was guilty as sin, and bounty hunter Dylan Davis didn’t want her testifying. He had his reasons. But the more he got to know this woman who had to be bad news, the less those reasons mattered, and the more he realized he was acting like a criminal himself. He was still determined to see justice done, but he could no longer keep Elise captive. She had to come to him of her own free will.

 

About The Author (Theresa Weir)

Theresa Weir is the USA Today bestselling author of twenty-one books and many short stories that cover the genres of suspense, mystery, thriller, romantic, paranormal and memoir.

 

Iguana Bay Excerpt

From far away came a sound as irritating to Dylan as fingernails scraping across a chalkboard. The sound penetrated the thick fog of dreamless sleep to journey down his nerve endings.
A grinding starter.
Somebody was attempting—unsuccessfully—to start an engine. Dylan groaned and rolled over, intent on wrapping the pillow around his head, covering his ears to drown out the noise, but a tug on his arm stopped him.
There was something around his wrist.
A handcuff.
He came fully awake, three thoughts hitting him at the same time: Elise Ramsey was no longer with him; someone was trying to make off with his boat; and last but certainly not least, he was handcuffed to his own damn bed.
The fact that the thief had to be Elise Ramsey annoyed Dylan more than it worried him. He felt pretty safe in assuming that she’d been born with the typical incompetence most females possessed when faced with a gas engine. Judging from the repetitious noise still coming from outside, she hadn’t discovered the switch that had to be flipped in order for the fuel to feed the engine. And she probably never would.
He’d never known Melissa to attempt to operate anything unless it was clearly marked: On, Off, Drive and Park. Mumbling some half-formed thoughts that had to do with women in general, he struggled out of bed. Then bracing himself, he dragged the entire bed frame across the floor to the dresser where he kept his spare set of handcuff keys.
With his free hand he rummaged through a litter of bullets, casings, knives, chunks of driftwood and seashells, and his loaded shoulder pistol. Lucky for him she hadn’t taken the notion to put a bullet through his brain before hightailing it.
He finally located the key. He had it in the handcuff lock when he heard a most surprising sound—that of an engine turning over.
Damn.
Elise Ramsey was quickly becoming more trouble than all of his bounty hunting jobs put together.
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Black and Blue for Kindle

Black and Blue for Kindle

by Anna Quindles

 

With Black and Blue, Anna Quindlen wastes no time in opening the door for the reader to step into a world of torture and abuse.

Fran and Bobby are mad for one another from their very first meeting, but before they are married Bobby starts to reveal his violent nature. Fran is gradually subjected to more and more abuse until finally she escape her abusive marriage, broken inside and out.

With the help of a group that aids battered women, Fran and her ten year old son Robert escape. Though Robert knows what has been happening, he is unable to accept the true nature of his father. Fran tries to start a new life, but she is tormented by the fear of being discovered by Bobby, whom Robert dearly longs for.

There is a great deal of realism in this fantastic work and it provides valuable insight into the realities of abuse, of coping with emotional pain, of the nature of love and of relationships. An excellent book that is highly recommended.

 

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I Am Alive Short Film

 

 

This short film compiled from footage from I Am Alive for XBOX Live and PSN was created by youtube user DR3adNik. Whilst the short film itself doesn’t appear to have any specific message (being more of a fan project than an art work) it hints at the character strength of perseverance and courage, with the lead character Adam Collins fighting for his survival in some kind of apocalypse. It also serves to strengthen the viewers sense of social connectivity.  So it is that we include this video here on Arolemodel.com for its positive inspiration for courage, perseverance and social interest.

 

I am Alive Short Film

 

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Social Intelligence Movies

Social Intelligence Movies

The following is a list of movies that inspire, motivate and aid in the development of social intelligence. For some great self improvement ideas for improving social intelligence reaD: Emotional Intelligence.

Breach

Inspired by the incredible true story of the greatest security breach in U.S. intelligence history, Breach is a spellbinding thriller starring Academy Award® winner Chris Cooper, Ryan Phillippe, Academy Award® nominee Laura Linney and Dennis Haysbert. Eric O’Neill (Phillippe) is assigned to work with renowned operative Robert Hanssen (Cooper), the sole subject of a long-term, top-secret investigation. Determined to draw this suspected double-agent out of deep cover, O’Neill finds himself in a lethal game of spy vs. spy, where nothing is as it seems. Critics are hailing Breach as “electrifying” (Peter Travers, Rolling Stone) and “suspenseful” (Ty Burr, The Boston Globe). Starring: Chris Cooper, Ryan Phillipe, Laura Linney, Dennis Haysbert, Caroline Dhavernas, Kathleen Quinlan, Gary Cole, Bruce Davison, Ryan Phillippe Directed by: Billy Ray  id=”" class=”" style=”"]

 Crash

Crash is a 2004 American drama film co-written, produced, and directed by Paul Haggis. The film is about racial and social tensions in Los Angeles, California. A self-described “passion piece” for Haggis, Crash was inspired by a real life incident in which his Porsche was carjacked outside a video store on Wilshire Boulevard in 1991.[1] It won three Oscars: Best Picture, Best Original Screenplay and Best Editing in 2005 at the 78th Academy Awards.
Several characters’ stories interweave during two days in Los Angeles; a black LAPD detective estranged from his mother, his criminal younger brother and gang associate, the white District Attorney and his irritated and pampered wife, a racist white police officer who disgusts his more idealistic younger partner, an African American Hollywood director and his wife who must deal with the officer, a Persian-immigrant father who is wary of others, and a Hispanic locksmith and his young daughter.

 

 

 

 One Flew Over The Cuckoo’s Nest

Randle Patrick McMurphy is a free-spirited, small-time convict who fakes being crazy so he can get transferred from the state penitentiary to a more comfortable state mental hospital.

   

 

 Twelve Angry Men

12 Angry Men is a 1957 American drama film adapted from a teleplay of the same name by Reginald Rose.[1][2] Directed by Sidney Lumet, the film tells the story of a jury made up of 12 men as they deliberate the guilt or acquittal of a defendant on the basis of reasonable doubt. In the United States (both then and now), the verdict in most criminal trials by jury must be unanimous one way or the other. The film is notable for its almost exclusive use of one set: with the exception of the film’s opening, which begins outside on the steps of the courthouse and ends with the jury’s final instructions before retiring, a brief final scene on the courthouse steps and two short scenes in an adjoining washroom, the entire movie takes place in the jury room. The total time spent outside of the jury room is three minutes out of the full 96 minutes of the movie.
12 Angry Men explores many techniques of consensus-building, and the difficulties encountered in the process, among a group of men whose range of personalities adds intensity and conflict. Apart from two of the jurors swapping names while leaving the courthouse, no names are used in the film: the defendant is referred to as “the boy” and the witnesses as the “old man” and “the lady across the street”.

 

A History of Violence

On the surface, David Cronenberg may seem an unlikely candidate to direct A History of Violence, but dig deeper and you’ll see that he’s the right man for the job. As an intellectual seeker of meaning and an avowed believer in Darwinian survival of the fittest, Cronenberg knows that the story of mild-mannered small-town diner proprietor Tom Stall (Viggo Mortensen) is in fact a multilayered examination of inbred human behavior, beginning when Tom’s skillful killing of two would-be robbers draws unwanted attention to his idyllic family life in rural Indiana. He’s got a loving wife (Maria Bello) and young daughter (Heidi Hayes) who are about to learn things about Tom they hadn’t suspected, and a teenage son (Ashton Holmes) who has inherited his father’s most prominent survival trait, manifesting itself in ways he never expected. By the time Tom has come into contact with a scarred villain (Ed Harris) and connections that lead him to a half-crazy kingpin (William Hurt, in a spectacular cameo), Cronenberg has plumbed the dark depths of human nature so skillfully that A History of Violence stands well above the graphic novel that inspired it (indeed, Cronenberg was unaware of the source material behind Josh Olson’s chilling adaptation). With hard-hitting violence that’s as sudden as it is graphically authentic, this is A History of Violence that’s worthy of serious study and widespread acclaim.

 

 

 Juno

Juno is a 2007 comedy-drama film directed by Jason Reitman and written by Diablo Cody. Ellen Page stars as the title character, an independent-minded teenager confronting an unplanned pregnancy and the subsequent events that put pressures of adult life onto her. Michael Cera, Olivia Thirlby, J. K. Simmons, Allison Janney, Jennifer Garner, and Jason Bateman also star. Filming spanned from early February to March 2007 in Vancouver, British Columbia. The film premiered on September 8 at the 2007 Toronto International Film Festival, receiving a standing ovation.
The film won the Academy Award for Best Original Screenplay and earned three other Oscar nominations, including Best Picture and Best Actress for Page. The film’s soundtrack, featuring several songs performed by Kimya Dawson in various guises, was the first chart-topping soundtrack since Dreamgirls and 20th Century Fox’s first number one soundtrack since Titanic. Juno earned back its initial budget of $6.5 million in twenty days, the first nineteen of which were when the film was in limited release.[4] The film went on to earn $231 million.
Juno received numerous positive reviews from critics, many of whom placed the film on their top ten lists for the year. The film has also received both criticism and praise from members of both the pro-life and pro-choice communities regarding its treatment of abortion.

   

 

 I Robot

I, Robot is a 2004 science-fiction action film directed by Alex Proyas. The screenplay was written by Jeff Vintar, Akiva Goldsman and Hillary Seitz, and is loosely based on (“suggested by”, according to the end credits) Isaac Asimov’s short-story collection of the same name. Will Smith stars in the lead role of the film as Detective Del Spooner. The supporting cast includes Bridget Moynahan, Bruce Greenwood, James Cromwell, Chi McBride, Alan Tudyk, and Shia LaBeouf. It was nominated for the 2004 Academy Award for Best Visual Effects, but lost to Spider-Man 2.

 

 

 As Good As It Gets

As Good as It Gets is a 1997 American romantic comedy film directed by James L. Brooks and produced by Laura Ziskin. It stars Jack Nicholson as a misanthropic, obsessive-compulsive novelist, Helen Hunt as a single mother with an asthmatic son, and Greg Kinnear as a gay artist. The screenplay was written by Mark Andrus and James L. Brooks.
Both Jack Nicholson and Helen Hunt won the Academy Award for Best Actor and Academy Award for Best Actress, respectively, making As Good As It Gets the latest film to win both of the lead acting awards, and the first since 1991. It is ranked 140th on Empire magazine’s “The 500 Greatest Movies of All Time” list.[2]

 

 The Great New Wonderful

The Great New Wonderful is a series of vignettes of incidents taking place concurrently around Manhattan. The only other thing linking the incidents is the month in which they occur: September 2002. Recurring themes include Frustration and Sugar.

The vignettes include:

  • An accountant (Jim Gaffigan) undergoing a therapy session in the office of a passive-aggressive psychologist (Tony Shalhoub).
  • Two immigrants from India on security detail for a visiting dignitary.
  • An ambitious pastry chef (Maggie Gyllenhaal) preparing a professional pitch that she hopes will make her the reigning doyenne of New York’s competitive cake scene.
  • A Brooklyn housewife (Olympia Dukakis) fixes her husband’s dinner and then sits at the kitchen table making collages out of old magazines while her husband sits on the balcony, smoking a cigarette.
  • Allison & David Burbage (Judy GreerTom McCarthy) struggle to keep their marriage together while coping with their increasingly difficult and strangely self-possessed 10-year-old son.

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Short Films About Love

Short Films That Will Make You Believe In Love Again

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Continuing our series of positive psychology movies, arolemodel.com presents these fantastic short films about love that are sure to brighten your perspective on dating, romance and relationships.

Short Film About Love #1: Love Does Grow On Trees

Written & directed by Bevan Walsh and produced by Geraldine Patten; starring Luke Ward-Wilkinson, El Krajewski and Tom Brooke, Love Does Grow On Trees is a very innocent and sweet short film about a young boy discovering the wonder and embarrassment that comes with women and porn. It is a genuinely touching tale of love that will spark even the coldest of hearts.

Watch it HERE

 

Short Film About Love #2 :Love Sick

This is a very simple comedy about love that reminds us all that there are plenty more fish in the sea.
watch it HERE

Short Film About Love #3: Validation

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Validation is the tale of a young man who, much like Amelie, simply wants to make people smile. He does so by running a free parking service at which he also gives out free complements. Of such positivity are his compliments that people cannot help but smile.
Before long, the young man is making people all around the nation smile, except one, a photographer who it seems cannot smile. Already having made seemingly everyone in the world smile except this one girl, the man becomes obsessed with her, at which point this already beautiful movie turns into an exquisitely tender romance.

 

 

httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao

Short Film About Love #4: Signs,

Signs is a charming tale of romance directed by Patrick Hughes. It depicts a guy fed up with his dull life, working a typical office job about which he seems less than inspired. One day he looks out the window of his office tower to see a girl who he instantly falls in love with. At work in opposite towers they communicate by holding signs up to the window.
Solid acting and a subtle yet charming story make this a great short to lift your spirits and will have you feeling optimistic about your love life in no time.

httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uy0HNWto0UY

Short Film About Love #5 : Marry Me

 

The story of a girl who like a boy who unfortunately like his bike above everything else, Marry me tells an incredibly cute tale of a girl’s first crush as he tries to impress the boy into liking her. What is most uplifting about this movie is the girl’s determination to make the boy like her and the courage and daring of her efforts, which culminate in a great moment of girl power.

Watch it HERE

 

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