Female Body Language Flirting Signs | Singles Dating and Online Dating Advice

The first thing to know about female body language and flirting is that women’s body language is not drastically different to men’s.

Signs like the Belly Button Pointer (the belly button points to where it wants to go) and dilated pupils (which indicate attraction) are universal, as are the feet pointing where the mind wants to go, as well as smiling, maintaining eye contact and any gesture that brings her body either a) closer to you or b) so that her belly button and feet are pointing towards you. These are all good signs.

Nevertheless, there are a few important differences to recognise between the body language of flirting women and that of men. For starters, women are generally far more subtle than men. While a woman’s face is more expressive, direct sexual signals will be reserved as tradition would dictate. The average girl isn’t going to throw herself on a man she wants to make a good impression on.

Female Flirting Body Language Signs

Preening: When around a guy they’re attracted to women will be very particular of their image, perhaps applying a little more lipstick or checking their hair. Lips and hair are extremely important to a woman (which is why some spend so much on lip augmentation, hair implants and more). If they’re checking the lips and hair a lot around you, it’s a good sign.

Touching You: women will almost always keep their hands far away from a guy they’re not interested in lest they get his attention and then can’t get rid of him. If she touches you on the arm or the chest or in any way corrects your clothing she’s giving a strong sign of interest.

Eye Contact: When we talk to someone we’re friendly with, we tend to keep our gaze constricted to a triangle between the eyes and down to the mouth. For people we are attracted to, this zone extends down to the junk. However, women will use their peripheral vision, meaning she won’t appear to be looking at your manhood but maybe only at your chest. Either way, if her gaze goes much lower than the bottom of your neck, she’s either checking you out or you’re flying low. If you’re dating a woman and she is reluctant to maintain eye contact, love is not in the air,

Licking lips: Pretty obvious. She wants those lips to be on you.

Be sure to keep a constant eye out for these female body language flirting signals. You never know, you might be surprised just exactly how often women show interest in you. And you never would have know had you not learned to read their body language.