How To Tell If A Shy Guy Likes You — An Easy Guide To Mr Shy

Written on Thursday, February 21st, 2013 by @Paul Harrison shy guy body language


Dating shy guys is difficult. Trust me. As a guy who spent 15 years of his life so shy I couldn’t talk to a single solitary soul. I know precisely how hard it is to start a relationship with a shy guy (both from the shy guy’s point of view and from the girl’s point of view).

Shyness used to make my life virtually impossible. I’d turn red the second a girl started talking to me.

That’s why I learnt everything I could about shyness. I overcame my own shyness. And now, I help shy guys and girls to get dates, and I help people to get dates with shy guys and girl.

I’ve helped tens of thousands of people to start dating shy guys and girls. So let me do the same for you.

Here is how you can tell whether that special shy guy is into you.


1.    Don’t outright ask him or his friends: First thing’s first; the wrong way how to tell if a shy guy likes you is to ask him or his friends.

Shy guys aren’t comfortable about sharing their feelings, or about the idea of other people knowing about their feelings. This means you can’t just outright ask a shy guy if he likes you. Doing so will make him feel uncomfortable and will likely lead to him becoming even shyer.

You also cannot ask his friends. Privacy is very important to shy guys. If he finds out that you’ve been asking about him behind his back (whether your intentions are good or not) he’ll likely be offended.



more-button2.    Watch the shy guy’s body language: 

Let’s get real. Your shy guy isn’t going to SAY he likes he. He just wont. The very idea of telling you how he feels is terrifying to him. But just because he wont TALK about his feelings, doesn’t mean he wont show them. Watch his body language and look for signs of attraction.


more-button3. Compare how he acts around you to how he acts around other people: I

f a shy guy likes you he will act differently around you than he does around other people. You might find that when you’re around he becomes more nervous, quieter, irritable etc.

If he treats you differently to how he treats everyone else, he feels differently about you and probably does like you.   



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Paul M Harrison is a journalist and author specialising in lifestyle and relationships. The author of more than five books, you can find Paul's works via his Amazon Author Page Obviously, add him on Twitter andFacebook too.

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