We people don’t half love to pretend we’re grown up. We put on suits, we give ourselves important sounding job titles, we use big words like sesquipedalianism to try and act smart, but you know what? We’re all kids, really; big, silly, immature kids. If you want great tips for communication skills, here’s one of the best. . .
One of the Best tips for communication skills: appeal to the kid in everyone.
Give people attention and they will love you. Simple.
So how do you give people the kind of attention that will make people like you lots? First things first, when you start talking to them, show some them open and positive body language by turning your whole body to face them and looking them in the eyes with a lovely smile. They wont be used to this. They’ll think, “Wow. Why is this person so interested in me?” Then a few moments later they’ll think, “Well, I suppose I am pretty awesome.” From there you have them hooked. You’ve fed their ego. You’ve given them attention. They’ll look to you to provide the attention they crave for as long as the two of you are in the same place.
Of course, some people will use this and other tips for communication skills to make people fall in love with them or to create powerful relationships in the business world which lead to profit. My personal favourite reason for doing this, however, is very simple: People deserve attention. People deserve to know that they matter, because they do; everyone does, and by being the person that reminds someone that they matter, you’ll capture their hearts for a long long time.
Yup. You give people the kind of attention a kid craves, they’ll love you.